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Not because you're totally clueless about how to handle his penis, but because sometime after high school, the good ol' HJ lost its luster.

You can sit cross-legged, or stretch your legs out on top of his.

Communicating during a hand job can be really hot—and very helpful! You can twist up the entire penis or save the twisting until you reach the head for a varied effect.

Add a few or more… fingers.

Just because they were what everyone was allegedly doing underneath the bleachers years ago, you can still and should incorporate hand jobs into your sex life.

If his penis is erect and already seeping you know he's ready, and you will have enough of his natural lubrication to start gently rubbing the head with your thumb and two fingers.

And I would add to it.

There are so many different things there.

But hand jobs can be a lot of fun.

What do people get wrong? I am working on my issues thanks to this and other marriage blogs and things are turning around slowly, but is it possible that some permanent damage has been done? Soap or shampoo on your hands will feel amazing to him when you try this move.